Category: Side Hustle Diaries

Real experiences testing side hustles, exploring income streams, and building a creative business after the 9-to-5.

  • I Forgot About My Benable Account. Now I’m Turning It Into a Side-Income Hub

    I Forgot About My Benable Account. Now I’m Turning It Into a Side-Income Hub

    I have a confession: I already had a Benable account.

    And like several things I’ve tried over the years, I pretty much forgot about it.

    The funny part? It had already made me money.

    Not quit-my-job money. Not even close. But when I logged back in recently, I had $60.58 sitting there from commissions and bonuses. Old recommendation lists were still getting views. People had liked and commented on lists I barely remembered making.

    So naturally, my analyst brain kicked in.

    Maybe Benable wasn’t another failed side-hustle experiment.

    Maybe I just never figured out what role it was supposed to play.

    Now I think I have.

    I’m rebuilding my Benable as a central hub for the things I actually use, love, recommend and create as I build The After-Hours Dreamer.

    So… What Exactly Is Benable?

    If you’ve never heard of Benable, think of it as a place to create curated lists of things you genuinely recommend.

    You can build lists around pretty much anything: products you use, books you love, places you’ve visited, beauty favorites, work-from-home essentials, clothes, hobbies, travel, recipes, and even things you’ve created yourself.

    Where it gets interesting for someone trying to build an income online is that many of those recommendations can also earn affiliate commissions.

    Instead of dropping random affiliate links all over the internet and hoping somebody clicks them, you can organize your recommendations into useful lists that people can actually browse.

    And apparently, those lists can keep working even when you forget they exist.

    Ask me how I know. 😂

    I Had Already Made Money… and Still Forgot About It

    Here’s the part that makes this whole thing even funnier.

    So instead of immediately creating another new account, platform, strategy, side hustle, or shiny object to chase, I decided to do something I’m learning to get much better at:

    Look at what I already have.

    I started cleaning up my old lists, rewriting descriptions, organizing recommendations into sections, updating links, and getting rid of things that no longer made sense.

    And that’s when Benable started getting interesting again.

    Then Benable Emailed Me This 👀

    A funny thing happened while I was in the middle of cleaning everything up.

    Benable emailed me to say my Work From Home Favorites I Actually Use & Love list was now eligible to trend because their algorithm considered it a high-quality list.

    I had spent all this time thinking of Benable as one of those old side-hustle experiments I’d abandoned, and meanwhile one of my lists was basically waking back up.

    Is this proof that I’m about to make a fortune on Benable? Absolutely not. 😂

    But it is a signal.

    People were still finding my lists. Benable was recognizing one of them as useful. And instead of ignoring that data, I decided to pay attention to it.

    I Finally Figured Out What Benable Is For Me

    This time, I don’t want Benable to become another separate project I have to maintain.

    I already have enough of those. 😂

    Instead, I realized Benable could become a central hub for the different pieces of The After-Hours Dreamer.

    I can have lists for the things I genuinely use and recommend, like my work-from-home favorites, beauty products, clothes, books, coffee finds and all the random things I already talk about in real life.

    But I can also use it to organize the things I’m creating.

    My Etsy digital products can live there. My books can live there. Eventually, After-Hours Dreamer merchandise can live there too. And as I keep building, I can create collections around the different worlds and interests that are becoming part of this brand.

    Instead of asking people to hunt through Etsy, Amazon, old blog posts and social media to find everything, Benable can become one place where I curate it all.

    And that changed how I looked at the platform.

    I don’t need another side hustle. I need the things I’m already building to work together.

    What I’m Doing Differently This Time

    The first time I used Benable, I treated it a little like a digital junk drawer.

    Make a list. Add some stuff. Move on.

    This time, I’m being much more intentional.

    I’m going back through old lists and asking whether I would actually recommend what’s on them today. I’m rewriting vague titles and descriptions so people immediately understand what a list is for. I’m adding sections so recommendations are easier to browse, and I’m adding notes that explain why something made the list instead of just throwing a link at someone.

    I’m also paying attention to what people are actually doing.

    Which lists are getting views? Which ones get likes? What are people clicking on? Which topics seem to keep bringing people back?

    That part is especially interesting to me because I spend my day job looking at data and patterns anyway. Apparently I cannot escape spreadsheets and analytics even when I’m building my dream after hours. 😂

    But there’s another difference this time too:

    I’m not filling lists just for the sake of having more lists.

    If I wouldn’t recommend it to a friend, use it myself, buy it myself, or genuinely think it belongs there, I don’t need to add it just to make the list longer.

    I’d rather have ten recommendations I can actually talk about than fifty random affiliate links I found on the internet.

    And based on that email from Benable, it looks like creating genuinely useful lists might be exactly what the platform wants anyway.

    So, Can You Actually Make Money With Benable?

    In my experience, yes.

    I already have.

    But I want to be really clear about what I mean by that, because the internet has enough people promising you’ll make thousands of dollars in your sleep if you just click their link. 😂

    When I came back to my account, I had $60.58 in payout-eligible earnings from commissions and bonuses I’d earned through Benable.

    That is real money I earned, but there’s an important detail: Benable currently requires me to reach the minimum payout amount before I can cash it out. For my account, that threshold is $80, so the $60.58 isn’t sitting in my bank account yet.

    And no, $60.58 isn’t life-changing money.

    What interests me is that I earned anything at all from an account I wasn’t consistently working on.

    To me, that makes it worth asking a better question:

    What happens if I actually use it intentionally this time?

    I don’t know the answer yet.

    And honestly, that’s part of why I’m writing this.

    The After-Hours Dreamer isn’t supposed to be a highlight reel where I only tell you about something after I’ve figured it all out. I want to document what I’m trying while I’m still in the messy middle of figuring out what works.

    So consider this the beginning of my Benable experiment, not a victory lap.

    If You Want to Try Benable Too

    If Benable sounds like something you’d like to experiment with, you can check it out using my invite link below.

    ✨ Join Me on Benable

    Disclosure: This is my Benable referral link. I may receive a bonus or other benefit if you join or use Benable through my link, at no additional cost to you. As always, I only share things I genuinely think are worth exploring.

    You absolutely do not need to already be an influencer or have thousands of followers to start making useful recommendation lists. Start with what you actually know.

    What do people ask you about?

    What have you bought that you’d buy again?

    What products make your workday easier?

    What books do you keep recommending?

    What places do you tell everyone to visit?

    That’s probably a much better place to start than searching for random products with the highest commission.

    Sometimes You Don’t Need Another New Thing

    I think that might be my biggest takeaway from all of this.

    I’m very good at getting excited about possibilities.

    New platforms. New ideas. New projects. New ways to make money online.

    But building The After-Hours Dreamer has been teaching me to look backward sometimes too.

    There are things I tried years ago that weren’t necessarily bad ideas. Maybe I didn’t have the experience yet. Maybe I didn’t understand how they fit together. Maybe I moved on before I gave them enough attention.

    Benable might turn into a meaningful income stream for me.

    It might not.

    I genuinely don’t know yet.

    But now it has a purpose.

    It can connect the things I recommend, the things I create, and the different pieces of this weird little business I’m building after work.

    And for now, that’s enough reason for me to keep experimenting.

    The path wasn’t straight. The dream was. 🌙

    I’ll keep you posted on what happens.

  • Nobody Tells You About the Boring Parts of Starting a Blog

    Nobody Tells You About the Boring Parts of Starting a Blog

    I thought I needed blog posts. Apparently I also needed privacy policies, disclosures, disclaimers, and an entire tiny legal department.

    When I decided to finally start The After-Hours Dreamer, I knew there were going to be things I had to learn.

    WordPress.

    Domains.

    Pinterest.

    SEO.

    Writing blog posts people might actually want to read.

    I even expected to spend an unreasonable amount of time changing fonts, adjusting margins, moving things around, changing them back, staring at my screen, and deciding that yes, apparently three pixels absolutely matter to me now.

    What I did not expect was to be sitting around watching TikTok and suddenly realizing:

    Wait. Does my blog need legal pages?!

    Excuse me?

    I came here to write about building dreams after work. 😂

    Sometimes You Don’t Know What You Don’t Know

    That’s probably been one of the biggest lessons I’ve learned while building this entire thing.

    You can research something for months and still not know everything before you start.

    Actually, I’m beginning to think that’s inevitable.

    I spent more than two years thinking about starting a blog before I finally launched one.

    And yet, after launching, I was still learning things I hadn’t even thought to research.

    This particular lesson came courtesy of a woman on TikTok talking about blogging.

    She mentioned legal pages.

    That sent me down another rabbit hole.

    Suddenly I was looking at my own website thinking:

    Well, shit. We should probably handle that.

    So I did.

    The Very Unexciting Side of Building Something Online

    I already had a Privacy Policy on my website, but I realized there were other things I needed to think about too.

    Because The After-Hours Dreamer isn’t just a personal diary.

    I’m building a business.

    I write about products and tools.

    I use affiliate links.

    I participate in the Amazon Associates program.

    I talk about things I’m trying in my own business, including self-publishing, blogging, Pinterest, Etsy, KDP, marketing, and eventually other income streams.

    That means I needed to make sure the website actually reflected what I was doing.

    So my little footer got some new roommates:

    Privacy Policy. Affiliate Disclosure. Disclaimer.

    Not exactly the glamorous entrepreneurial empire I pictured, but here we are. 😂

    Why I Added an Affiliate Disclosure

    This one is especially important for me because I’m using affiliate marketing as one of the potential income streams for The After-Hours Dreamer.

    If I recommend something and use an affiliate link, I may receive a commission when someone makes a qualifying purchase through that link.

    And I want people to know that.

    I don’t want somebody wondering whether I’m recommending something because I genuinely like it or because there’s money attached to the link.

    If there’s an affiliate relationship involved, I’m going to disclose it.

    Simple.

    And because I’m currently an Amazon Associate, I also added the appropriate Amazon Associates disclosure to my site.

    Then Came the Disclaimer

    This one made even more sense once I thought about what I actually write about.

    I’m documenting my experience.

    I’m not standing on top of the Internet Mountain holding stone tablets containing The One True Way to Build a Business.

    Good Lord. I’m figuring this shit out too. 😂

    I’m going to talk about what works for me.

    I’m going to talk about what doesn’t.

    I’m going to share numbers sometimes.

    I’m going to talk about KDP, blogging, Etsy, Pinterest, affiliate marketing, products, mistakes, successes, and whatever other strange corridor this business takes me down.

    But my experience isn’t a guarantee of someone else’s results.

    And I’m certainly not anybody’s lawyer, accountant, financial advisor, doctor, or tax professional.

    So the Disclaimer makes that distinction clear.

    I’m sharing the journey. I’m not promising you the destination.

    This Is Exactly Why I Wanted to Document the Messy Middle

    Here’s the funny part.

    A year from now, this will probably feel obvious.

    I’ll look at a website and immediately think:

    Privacy Policy. Disclosure. Disclaimer. Got it.

    But right now?

    I’m learning.

    And this is the part I want to document.

    Because someday another woman is going to be sitting on her couch after working all day thinking:

    I really want to start a blog.

    And she’s probably going to Google how to start one.

    She’s going to find beautiful websites explaining domains, hosting, themes, SEO, content calendars, email lists, and monetization.

    All useful things.

    But I also want somebody out here saying:

    Hey. Before you get too far, don’t forget the boring stuff.

    Because apparently the boring stuff matters too.

    Starting Before You’re Ready Doesn’t Mean Staying Uninformed

    I’ve spent a lot of time in my life waiting until I felt ready.

    I wanted to understand everything before I started.

    I wanted the entire road map before taking the first step.

    And I’m realizing how impossible that is.

    I couldn’t have known every problem I was going to encounter with KDP before publishing a book.

    I couldn’t have known everything I would eventually want The After-Hours Dreamer to become before launching the website.

    And I couldn’t possibly know every lesson I’m going to learn while trying to turn this little after-hours project into an actual business.

    The goal isn’t:

    Know everything before you begin.

    It’s:

    Begin. Pay attention. Learn. Fix. Keep going.

    That’s exactly what happened here.

    I learned something.

    I looked at my website.

    I realized I needed to make some changes.

    So I made them.

    No dramatic existential crisis required.

    Okay.

    Maybe a tiny one.

    😂

    Consider This Your Friendly Nudge

    If you’re building your own blog or website, take some time to research which policies and disclosures may apply to your particular website, location, audience, business model, and the services you use.

    Don’t blindly copy mine.

    And definitely don’t treat this blog post as legal advice.

    Remember the Disclaimer we just spent an entire section talking about? 😂

    Requirements can vary, and your business may need things mine doesn’t.

    But if you’ve been so focused on creating your logo, writing posts, picking colors, making products, figuring out social media, and doing the thousand other things that come with building something online that you completely forgot about this side of it…

    Well.

    Same.

    Consider this the random Internet nudge that TikTok gave me.

    Another Finished Thing

    The Privacy Policy is there.

    The Affiliate Disclosure is there.

    The Disclaimer is there.

    And The After-Hours Dreamer is a tiny bit more grown up than it was before.

    That’s what building this has looked like so far.

    Not one giant moment where suddenly I know what I’m doing.

    Just hundreds of little moments where I know more than I did yesterday.

    And then I do something with what I learned.

    That’s enough for tonight.

    🌙

    Dream it. Plan it. Build it after hours.